Friday, November 28, 2014

There are days...

Oh there are days when I wish I lived closer to my family in Australia!  Other days not so much, and it generally has little to do with them.  I really think it’s the combination of being a single dad combined with the sometimes loneliness of having no immediate family living here in Canada.  

This is especially true over the holidays and with Christmas looming, even though I never really celebrated Christmas (my ex is Jewish and we had agreed when Zach and Sami were born that we would raise them in a Jewish household) it’s a time when families get together and spend time together.  So I'm a little envious to say the least.

Its strange that I don't even remember the last time I was home in Australia with my family at Christmas - could it be 1987?

It’s been three years since I was home last, yes I still call Australia home…(hey, isn't that the name of a song?) and so its been on my mind quite a bit lately with me trying to figure out when the best time is to visit, without disrupting Zach and Sami's school year. Especially cos’ you know that I'm not going to get away with going to Australia without Zach and Sami. I can go lots of places in the world, but clearly Australia is not one of them!  

The sheer cost is staggering when you add up three airfares, car rental, hotel (for at least a part of the visit), plus spending money etc.  A conservative number I have in my head is between $15,000 and $20,000 for the three of us to go for two weeks.  I realize cost shouldn’t be the only factor in my decision-making, but it certainly is a large hurdle.

For them its been six years since we made it back collectively and in that time so much has changed, and not only them growing up but with also losing my dad.  With his death and subsequent selling of my childhood home its left a void, which for some reason makes it, less appealing to go home, after all where is home now?   I guess that’s really at the heart of the matter isn't it, the feeling of being an orphan with nowhere really to hang my hat except here in Canada.  

It’s realize that it may seem a little crazy that I still associate myself with my Australian heritage and upbringing and to be honest stubbornly hold onto it, while at the same time know deep in my heart that the kids are Canadian and that realistically this will be my home for the remainder of my life…unless I retire to Italy full time that is.  

Don't get me wrong I love Canada and it’s been very good for me personally but to be completely transparent I hate the winters!  Not only are they too cold, damp and miserable but also the greyness of it all gets to me, especially when they are five to six months long.  

This year I was already dreading the winter as far back as August, likely cos we had such a cold and mild summer with no real hot weather to speak of and I could just sense the slide toward another cold and nasty winter with every passing day, and once we move beyond Labour Day forget about it we were done as far as I was concerned and that’s when the yearly depression begins to seep in.  Oi vey mate is all I can say to that!

I know – after all these years you'd think I would have come to terms with the winters, but no such luck.  Give me a beach and hot sunny weather any day of the week my friends and you'll have one very happy camper on your hands.  Even if close my eyes right now and imagine being able to go outside dressed in shorts, t-shirt and thongs (flip-flops to my American neighbours) and feel the sun on my skin it just makes me smile.

Strangely both Zach and Sami aren't big fans of hot weather, sure they like going to Florida at Christmas but not really into hot summery weather.  Goodness, how would they fare in Australia where I grew up when a summers day would often reach into the mid 40C range, and stay that way for a few day…yep, no air conditioning either. 

I suppose that is definitely another consideration in terms of when we could plan to visit Australia, as I'd rather not have two cranky teens on my hands. Clearly the best time to visit my family downunder would be in the April – May or Oct – November timeframes where it’s neither too hot nor too cold.  Hhhmmm, it sounds a little too much like Goldilocks and the three bears, except in this case it’s the two bears.

That being said, if I asked them, they'd jump at the opportunity and want to be on a plane first thing tomorrow.  (I suppose I’ve had a strong influence on them and their willingness to travel and explore the world), yes they've been on lots and lots of trips with me.

As many of you know this Christmas the three of us are taking the ultimate road trip, and driving from Toronto (Canada) to Longboat Key (Florida), which is some 2400 km distant. Our planned route is going to take us via New York City, Washington DC, Raleigh (North Carolina), Savannah (Georgia) and Daytona Beach (Florida) before we skip across Florida to Sarasota, then Longboat Key on the West Coast.  The plan is to spend seven days meandering our way down the Eastern seaboard; hopefully the weather will play along and don’t get any major storms on the drive down.

After that we begin planning our March break getaway – could 2015 be the year for Australia?   

Stay tuned!

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This weeks photos are a small selection of the photos I took over the remainder of the weekend last week in Lisbon, Portugal.  Enjoy!


Swirling water at the base of the Belem Tower 

Newly painted crane hook on the deserted waterfront

The Gateway to Discovery Tower - all 10 stories of it!

The square at the base of the Gateway of Discovery with all of the Portuguese conquests outlined
on the map of the ancient world

The underpass shadows

Wild Orange trees growing in the street

Roasting chestnuts on the footpath

Check out the eyes...above a doorway
April 25th Bridge across the Tagus River

April 25th Bridge - the Golden Gate in Lisbon

Under the bridge

Deserted buildings on the waterfront

Lisbon harbour was completely empty...so sad really

Brightly colored buildings on the road from Belem

Urban art on the waterfront

Colors of rust...
Nothing going on along the waterfront


The ferry terminal that crosses the river Tagus

Waiting for his master at a coffee shop - such a forlorn look on his face!

Downtown Lisbon

Cool coffee shop in the Baixa-Chiado neighbourhood


Graffiti next to an ATM

Broken window

Rossio train station facade - awesome architecture



Arches at the Praca do Comercio
Day trip to the Palace of Pena - Sintra, Portugal

Key hole photo through an actual key hole...

The gargoyle near the entrance of the Palace of Pena - Sintra, Portugal


Moorish overtones in the design and architecture at the Palace of Pena


The Fern in the giant Clam shell

Inside the Chapel at the Palace of Pena

The Arab room at the Palace of Pena - it looks 3D, but they're
 actually painted walls


The Porcelain Hippo at the Palace of Pena

Chandelier reflections 

Contrast of colors at the Palace

Loved the light on the circular stairs at the Palace of Pena




Friday, November 21, 2014

What am I waiting for?

Part One:

I’m sitting in the airport lounge in Frankfurt on my way to Lisbon, Portugal for a long weekend.  Yes, you heard correctly – for the weekend!  Now at first glance you might think this a little decadent, or perhaps a little frivolous but I want give you some context although, if you’re a frequent reader you’ll understand completely.  J

It’s no mistake that my new business venture is centered around travel, its benefits, especially for the likes of me are too numerous to mention.  Having my own business provides me the type of flexibility in my life that I now see as essential, and clearly something that I’ve been moving increasingly toward over the past couple of years. 
Strangely, it feels like I’m being magnetically drawn toward my new lifestyle in some weird way, almost compelled.  Whatever it is my sense of adventure and instinctive curiosity is always tingling with the possibility of getting on a plane and exploring somewhere new. 

The question that keeps coming to mind is “What am I waiting for?”  This very question excites me and at the same time of it refreshes me to the core (yes, in my head – not our loud).

For those of you that have started a business, you’ll know that it takes longer than planned to get everything off the ground, and so I recently surrendered to the thought of not pushing too hard but letting it work its way through organically and letting it follow a natural progression and flow, yes its a lot less stressful as well! The good news is that I have a number of exciting opportunities on the go along with some cool stuff on the horizon so couldn’t be happier. 

With this as my backdrop late last week I was looking at a weekend without Zach and Sami (as they are with my ex) and thought why not get on a plane and go explore.  Firstly, choosing a location was trickier that I thought because there are so many places still on my list…  As the late Susan Sontag (Writer and literary critic) once said “I haven’t been everywhere, but its on my list”.  Couldn't have coined it more perfectly!

It eventually came down to two locations, both amazing options so I could hardly go wrong, however my mind was made up at the start of the week after a frigid chill swept through Toronto bringing with it cold arctic air and snow, hence my choice of Lisbon.

The other choice was Berlin, as I said a great option but the weather differential played the critical role in my decision.  Today Berlin reached a high of 6C, whereas Lisbon was a balmy 21C, you can see where I’m going with this especially after the crappy week we’ve had in Toronto and the temperature well below 0C for much of the week.  Frankly, I didn’t want to face more cold weather over the weekend…sorry Berlin but I'll have to take a rain check!


Part Deux:

I arrived safe into Lisbon just before lunchtime today, after two smooth and uneventful flights (always the best kind!).  After quickly checking in and dropping my bags at my hotel I found myself in a taxi headed for the Alfama neighbourhood (Old Quarter) for the afternoon.  I initially started my exploration at Castelo de São Jorge (St George’s Castle) which towers over the old city and has commanding views of the Rio Tejo (or Tagus river that splits Lisbon in two).

Lisbon itself was build on a series of low rolling hills and as such is interesting to hike, if you want a full body workout you’ve come to the right city. J   In all I walked for about four solid hours and took just under 400 photos (still not sure what the "keep rate" is on this afternoons photo shoot), not bad for an afternoon’s work. 

Initially I started in Alfama, but then explored Baixa (which is the main tourist area) and Amoreiras with its high-end stores (equivalent of 5th Avenue in New York).  Yes, they even had my favorite store (Massimo Dutti), which I had to go see just in case they had anything in Lisbon that they didn’t have in Toronto…surprisingly not too much was different.

Tomorrow, my plan is to walk along the waterfront to the Belém Tower which is situated a few kilometers along the waterfront where the Atlantic and the Tagus river meet.  The tower was built on an island at the mouth of the river as a fortified position in 1519 and played a major role in a number of skirmishes and with the French and Spanish navies over the centuries.  Since the earthquake that levelled Lisbon in 1755 the  Belém Tower is now part of the shoreline as the river itself was strangely redirected by the quake.

After an afternoon of walking around Lisbon you can see the struggles the proud city has endured and continues to experience since the financial crisis, with many stores closed and quite a number of rundown buildings even in the main tourist areas.  Given that it’s the countries capital it’s surprisingly quiet and little traffic to speak of, but it has a great vibe which you can't fake so if you ever get a chance to come to Lisbon...take it!

The key question that keeps going through my mind is  “what am I waiting for?”.  

I want you to all take a step back and ask yourself the same question?  It doesn’t have to be as exotic as Lisbon or Berlin, but committing yourself to having an adventure is where I believe life begins…oh, and bring a camera cos’ I want to see what you find along the way.  

I like a dare, so I also dare you to respond with your answers and photos on my blog or on Facebook! J

Boa noite  (good night in Portuguese)

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Here a small selection of some photos from this afternoons photo shoot in Lisbon's Old Quarter - enjoy!



Friday is wash day in Lisbon!

The Portuguese love their tiles - this is a fully tiled wall (huge tiles)


Autumn leaves in a pond - Lisbon

Reflections over water in Lisbon

Miles of parks in Lisbon - so pretty!

Is it a tram or a funicular?  My guess is the latter

Subway graffiti

When I first saw this photo I thought the statue was giving
me the finger...hahaha

The tile pattern in the pavement - slightly disorienting

A favour for Zach - picked him up some Portuguese vinyl

The ubiquitous Tuk-Tuk....now I know why they are soooooo popular in Goa

Unforgettable colors and clouds

Colors of the Tagus toward late afternoon

Girl writing in the sand at 
Praça do Comércio

Brilliant colors!

The street performer was brilliant at getting the bubbles to ah enormous size

A warm embrace with bubble!

Blowing bubbles in Baixa

The door grate

Apartments left to the elements in Baixa

Sadly the sidewalks were empty

Inside the church entrance 

The parody - the photographer taking a photo of the photographer!

Church towers reminded me of Notre Dame in Paris, but not as ornate

Tram coming down from the Castelo

How old???

Nothing like a random tile store...

Tram tracks coming down from Castelo de Sao Jorge


Reflection on water

Cobbled streets

Spectacular views from the Castelo de Sao Jorge


The numerous churches are evident in Lisbon

Indeed - "From Portugal with love"

View of the Tagus River from the Castelo


The moat inside the Castelo de Sao Jorge - its now full of Peacocks

Yes Peacocks!

The fountain inside the Castelo

The view from Castelo de Sao Jorge over Lisbon

Extremely civilized Portuguese wine seller just after lunch!

Canon still holding firm over the Tagus River from Castelo de Sao Jorge 

Statue of a knight at Castelo de Sao Jorge

Tram tracks with grate in Alfama