Friday, August 28, 2015

The Art of Traveling Light

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I definitely learned the art of traveling light on my very first overseas trip.  There I was ready to embark on a yearlong quest to discover the world and my mate (yes, you Roscoe) offered to come over and “check” my packing.  He'd had his big trip a couple of years prior and learned the hard way about taking too much crap, so he kindly offered to help me keep it light.

Prior to him coming over I'd laid out all the things I thought I'd need, and trust me it was a king sized bed covered in clothes, books and a variety of accouterments that I thought might come in handy at some point.

He literally took one look at the volume of stuff, and shaking his head began “helping me” – read, hauling stuff off the bed onto the surrounding floor.  As he went he muttered, “no, nope, holy shit, no-way…. and a number of other comments that can’t be printed here. J


He was ruthless!  

Yep, by the time he was done he'd questioned my sanity, my knowledge of the world and my construct of basic logic.  The room was a complete mess, and all that remained on the bed was a rather meager pile of clothes.  He'd basically jettisoned everything regarded as a “luxury” including books, and anything I had more than two of – except undies, socks and t-shirts.   Fortunately he'd allowed me an allocation of four each of these!

It was impossible to contemplate being away a year with literally a handful of items.  With every protest he'd smile his sardonic smile and ask “if you needed another could you buy it there?”  I had no comeback; after all he was the experienced traveler, and I, the novice.  I had little recourse and begrudgingly took his advice although in retrospect I may have added one or two items last minute but generally kept to his strict regime of “less is more.” 

His point of view was if you don't need to carry it, why would you?

After our packing tango, I must admit I had lots of room to spare, and now began to appreciate his logic, especially after witnessing many others who were literally being crushed under the weight of their oversized and unwieldy packs.  I found it a little disconcerting to watch them struggle, but everyday that I was on the road I'd praised Roscoe’s wisdom.

Ever since that initial trip I've been a rigorous exponent of the “less is more” rule when traveling.  After all that’s why they make small pouches of washing detergent – right? 

As you know I've even trained Zach and Sami in the art of traveling light.  Recently, when Sami went to Florida for the Maccabi Games she only took carry on and a small team backpack.  When I dropped her off at the airport many of her teammates had full sized suitcases, plus an extra bag as well as their backpacks – you have to admit that’s a lot of stuff for five days! 

Interestingly, the only one that wins in this scenario is the airline with all the extra baggage fees that are now so common, and trust me I've got much better things to spend my money on.  

Although deep down I'm sure Sami would have liked to have taken more stuff with her, especially to give her a greater choice of attire at night but, to her credit she didn't complain and I think came to see it as a badge of honor amongst her friends and teammates – the seasoned world traveler .

As you know from ready my prior blog I’m heading Italy this weekend for two weeks of exploring with my girlfriend Aimee.  I'm sure you're all dying to ask, and yes I've challenged her to also only take carry-on for our two week adventure…  She’s been a good sport about it, and has been constantly devising ways to save space so she can meet the challenge. J  Although clearly, her preference would not be carry-on for our adventure and I think her friends think she’s crazy for even trying. 

I've even offered to “help” but this generous offer has been politely declined – say no more!

I’m hoping that she'll see the value of traveling light, but I think its going to take a little time and perspective.  

It seems like our lives are so overburdened at times with all the “stuff” that we lug around , more out of habit versus a need.  

So for your next trip, I'm challenging you all - layout all of the items you think you'd like to take with you. Then only take half and see if you can fit it into a carry-on...don't worry you'll thank me later.  If it still doesn't fit into carry-on there are deeper issues - just sayin!

So until next week from Italy, its TW signing off!

Ciao Ciao

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“Hanoi Posting”

A series of micro-stories by Terence Wallis

Episode 8: The Star Cafe

Bill prided himself in being a great investigative reporter, and after his encounter with Mai at the cocktail party the prior evening he was more than a little pre-occupied with finding her and was desperate to talk to Phuong about what had happened last night.  

Bill and Phuong had developed an early morning ritual of meeting at the Star Cafe on Nguyen Thien Thuat in the Old Quarter to begin each day, once together Bill would practice his basic Vietnamese and then they'd work out what newsworthy stories they would follow over the coming days.  It had taken Bill some time to adjust to the heat and humidity of Hanoi, although most days Phuong still wore a light jacket as he reminded Bill that it was still the cool season.  To which Bill would shake his head and laugh as the beads of sweat rolled down his temple and onto the table in front of him.  "God its hot" he'd complain

 Bill always arrived at the Star early but inevitably found Phuong at his usual spot perched in the back corner chatting amiably to the Star's owner.  The conversation ended as Bill strode toward them, Bin Dong, the Star's owner smiled and moved toward the counter to begin making the coffees.  Once the coffees had arrived Bill turned to Phuong and told him of his encounter with the beautiful woman and more importantly what she'd said to him before she walked away.

“If you saw her, you'd say she was the most beautiful woman in the world” bill cooed but couldn't give Phuong much more to go on.  Phuong's face was impervious to expression and knew who the mystery woman was without being given another clue.  Hanoi Rose was the most glamorous and beautiful woman in all of Hanoi and Phuong knew much more than what he was willing to tell Bill.  


She was trouble with a capital T...


Next week:  Episode 9:  Running on empty  

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This weeks photos are from a shoot we did last Sunday in Toronto's eclectic Kensington Market - enjoy!


On my way over to Kensington I walked along College Street

Painted sidewalk in Kensington Market 

Must admit I do love Pineapple!   Yum

Recycling bin with shadows

A very cool sign, albeit with paint peeling

An artsy shot through Aimee's arm as she was taking a photo

Urban art reflected in a window

The fins are definitely in - awesome!

The Mona Lisa mural taken in the side mirror of the Chevy (previous photo)

No not Tibet - just Augusta street in Kensington Market

A sweet shot looking directly up into the lantern

Such a gorgeous day to be out with the camera

Streetcar tracks in the late afternoon light at Queen & Spadina

As you can tell I played with this one...

High rise sun beam

Staples on a community notice board - Queen & Spadina

Interesting store front decorations on Queen


A photo of the photographer in a motorcycle mirror

Self portrait in a shop window in Kensington Market

To be clear the lake is a few kilometers away...

Nothing like a little soft serve ice cream on a sunny day!

I'm completely fascinated by Street and Urban art - so eclectic and cool!

Feels like New York City...








Friday, August 21, 2015

Checkpoint!

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This week marks the first anniversary of the founding of Indelible Adventures Inc., so its somewhat expected that I would evaluate where I am with my business versus where I thought I would be at the end of this first year.  My management consulting background continues to influence my thinking and thus my inner voice wants to constantly measure my progress against hard metrics…oi vey mate!

The initial plan had three simple objectives: 

1. Write, photograph, and travel – check!
2. Have flexibility so that I could continue to spend lots of time with Zach & Sami – check!
3. Have fun along the way – definitely check!!!

My journey so far has been devoid of a traditional management consulting approach or hard metrics, yes quite the departure really!  Now to be fair, I haven't gone completely cold turkey in terms of consulting and still have small or part-time contracts on the go which, pragmatically speaking are good in terms of paying the bills, but also keeps my hand in the consulting business but not in it enough to completely monopolize my life.

Perhaps it's ego, but putting your work out there for others to see, read and critique is a tad nerve wracking let’s be honest.  I get a lot of feedback on my photography but only a little on my writing. Perhaps its because I have a very conversational manner to my writing versus a more traditional style and would love to get more feedback.

One lesson that I learned this past year is that you need a thick skin to deal with rejection. Pitching my writing and photography on an ongoing basis has been a humbling experience, but a necessary one to continually hone and tune my skills in both areas.  The big “ah-ha” moment for me was when I realized that often it’s not so much about the content per see (although important), but more about the timing of pitching your work. Staying focused and being consistent and disciplined are critical to ensuring that I'll be ready to pitch at a moments notice. 

The other interesting observation I've made is that everyone, me included, has a fixation with labeling and categorizing others, I guess its human nature.  For example, a question I often get asked is “so exactly do you do?”  It seems that once people understand that then they can slot me into a neat little category in their heads.  However, when I respond that I’m a writer, photographer, speaker, travel concierge and consultant it often confuses the heck out of people. ☺

I must admit that sometimes it’s nice to mess with them and see the look of confusion wash over someone’s face when I respond that way, albeit I already know what they're going to ask next “but how do you make a living?” they often ask pleadingly.

It’s also interesting that by piecing together various revenue streams it’s often perceived as less than a “real job”, perhaps only temporary until you find another full time gig...  Trust me, there have even been a few times this year that I've wondered what the hell I'm doing and that I should just resign myself to getting a job and abandoning my dream of following my passions and building a business around those.  But I know that by doing that I'd be selling myself short and would ultimately regret it - no question!

It takes an enormous amount of patience (more time than you'd expect or hope for) and perseverance to build a business.  One of the wonderful things about my eclectic business is that I get to help people and see the enjoyment in their faces, whether it be in a one-on-one or small group Urban Art Photography tour or building one of a kind trips for people - it's been amazing.

Recently I developed an itinerary for a friend of mine as she wanted to take her son to Italy and France as a high school graduation gift. They had about fifteen days and had a host of places they wanted to see but without roughing it, nor spending gobs of money in the European high season.  It was a wonderfully thoughtful graduation gift and I was thrilled that she asked me to create the trip for them.  Its been so gratifying to see her reviews this past week as she's fallen in love with all of the locations and hotels that I arranged for them and they seem to be having a wonderful time.  

Now if that isn't amazing what is???

All in all it's been a great year with lots of fantastic experiences, new friends, broader network and stronger core skills. The only thing to do now is continue to focus, and work hard at building my brand and seeing the goodness that will continue to grow.

Thanks for all of your support, I couldn't have done it without you!  ☺


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“Hanoi Posting”

A series of micro-stories by Terence Wallis

Episode 7: Torturous

The look of desire in her eyes was mesmerizing; it had been some time since he had felt like the prey in an encounter but clearly she was a master in the art of seduction.  

Her hand lingered on his ass before she slowly ran her index finger up to his belt and deliberately traced her index finger toward the buckle, their eyes locked, the sounds of the room silent around them.  He watched transfixed as she seductively brought the cigarette to her lips and slowly drew on it as they continued to gaze into each other’s eyes.  She tilted her head slightly and blew the smoke away from him.

"Ah, so what’s your name?" he asked clumsily.  She smiled the most gorgeous smile of perfectly white, straight teeth and in impeccable English said I’m Mai, and you are…other than handsome?

He blushed as he held out his hand, she took it and felt his strong grip embrace her beautifully manicured hand.  Bill’s pulse quickened as she leaned into him and whispered into his ear — “find me”.

With that she withdrew her hand, smiled and took him in with one long seductive look, before turning and floating back into the sea of people that surrounded them.  

Bill stood there, not believing what had just happened.  He quickly scanned the room into which she had disappeared but was unable to see her.

"Jesus" he muttered to himself as he downed the scotch in one large gulp.  


Slowly regaining his composure he leaned back against the bar and shook his head, "find me huh".  A mischievous grin slowly spread across his face, he knew the perfect guy that could help him do just that...


Next week:  Episode 8:  The Star Cafe 

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This weeks photos are a composite from a night photo shoot last Saturday night, and an early morning shoot on Sunday morning with my girlfriend Aimee - enjoy!




The vibrant CN town that dominates the downtown Toronto skyline
Loved putting the camera on manual focus and purposefully bluring the shot :-)


Experiment in "ghosting' with a time lapse setting - 30 sec



On the Front & Bathurst street bridge with time lapse - a truck with trailer were the high lights

Amazing colors with a 30 sec time lapse

The high green lights were the streetcar...

Perfect geometry and beautiful night sky make for a nice shot -
if you look closely you can even see stars

Sunday morning fire escape on Bathurst street

I tend to gravitate toward urban art and Sunday was no exception
this new piece is gorgeous by Young Jarus

Remnants of the rainstorm still puddle in Toronto's graffiti alley - cool reflection btw!

Nothing says Italy like an old style scooter - downtown Toronto


Bright Lane off King Street West - funky!

Condiments in a window...

Cool urban art is everywhere!

Can you say gritty?   
I love this shot with such a contrast of colors and lines

I will be very sad to see this stunning mural demolished when they begin construction of a new condo tower
later this year.   This is one awesome piece of street art!